Former Female Idol Gives Her Two Cents On Marriage And Children
Recently, former Crayon Pop’s Soyul, married to H.O.T’s Moon Hee Jun, held a Q&A on her Instagram.
She answered various questions, from diet secrets to worries about marriage and children.
“Question: Why are the laundry, dishes, and raising kids all the women’s jobs? I get so mad when, even when we do it together, they don’t do it right.
Answer: I don’t know either, but I guess maybe women are born to birth children and do housework better…of course, many guys do it well, too. But one thing is for sure! Housework is also work, so you just become better at it the more you do it. If they continue to do it with you, even if you aren’t pleased with how they do it, they will get better. You need a bit of patience!”
“Question: I think marriage is a big challenge. Why am I so scared…I’m worried whether or not I will be able to raise kids well. Did you have any worries about marriage and raising children?
Answer: It is because it’s your first time! It’s something you haven’t experienced yet! But I think it’s nice to experience marriage and having kids with this one life that we have! There’s a lot to learn from marriage, and you always have someone you love as your guardian. Raising kids is hard, but they are so precious and is something you have to do as a parent. It’s a new feeling. Don’t think too much about being scared and worried; consider it the second chapter of your life. If you think, ‘Let’s live happily,’ then you can overcome anything, even when hardships come your way, and good things will happen. Don’t worry.”
On the other hand, Soyul married Moon Hee Jun in 2017 and has one son and one daughter.