ATEEZ’s San Gets Honest With Fans About Denying Their “Marriage Proposals”
During fansigns and other fan meetings, it isn’t uncommon for fans to get bold with their favorite K-Pop idols and (usually) jokingly ask them to marry them.
🌌 if i watch the reviews of your fansign videos, there’s a lot of people asking you to marry them
👅 i’ll marry you too!!
🌌 when is my turn for the marriage?
👅 i’ll divorce everyone and come to you!!SKSJSHD DAWON PLS🥲😭
pic.twitter.com/EMVPNhI4fb— 다원상사 (@dawonsangsa2) August 3, 2021
Reactions and responses from the idols being asked can vary widely, from them “accepting” the offer to polite declining, and oftentimes can be pretty awkward.
210616 Fansign Soundwave
💚 Will you marry me?
🐶 Eoooh..? Oohh..?!cr coastal_nightpic.twitter.com/NCwJV2bxu7
— Lee Jeno Indonesia (.◜◡◝) (@LeeJeno_IDN) June 16, 2021
210716 1:1 Makestar Fansign #MAMAMOO #MOONBYUL
Me: How have you been unnie
🐹: Ive been well
Me:Since its already the 4th time we’re meeting I wanted to ask you something
🐹: oh ? What is it?
Me: will u marry me 🤣
🐹: 😳 uhhh I dont like marriage[cont] pic.twitter.com/F42h9pgnzH
— ❖ moomooshinn+⁴ˣ⁴ (@moomooshinn) July 16, 2021
ATEEZ‘s San has been the subject to many of these “marriage proposals”, and recently, he shared why he always gently turns down fans rather than playing into the fantasy.
Of course, it’s never his intention to hurt ATINYs feelings, because he clearly cares deeply for all of ATEEZ’s fans. He explained that he doesn’t like to lie, and only wants to tell ATINYs words that he wants to keep because of how much he loves and cherishes them.
san said when tinys ask him stuff like “marry me” and he doesn’t accept it, it’s because he doesn’t like to lie, and he wants to tell us only words that he wants to keep, he loves and cherishes us a lot, so he doesn’t like for us to get hurt even more 🥺
— celine (@sandorokis) September 2, 2022
He went on to add that he’s not thinking of marriage at this time because he likes where he is.
he said he’s also not thinking of marriage, and he likes how it is right now 🥹
— celine (@sandorokis) September 2, 2022
ATINYs are expressing their appreciation and admiration for San’s honesty on social media.
San not feeding the delulu is so manly and real to me. Basically any time the members put boundaries to fans is so manly and real to me.
— Sammy Flower (@E96409835) September 2, 2022
He’s such a sweetheart
— ⩜⃝sh⁷ ~ 🐰JK DAY🎂 (@GuerrillAsh) September 2, 2022
He makes us so happy in many other ways ❤️
— Elo Key (@EloKey811) September 2, 2022
Oh my goodness. What a pure heart. It’s so refreshing to see nowadays. He is a lovely human being.
— Lolita (@mortybda) September 2, 2022
We love to see K-Pop idols setting healthy boundaries between themselves and their fans!
