(G)I-DLE’s Shuhua Has The Best Advice For LGBTQ+ People Dealing With Disapproval From Their Parents
(G)I-DLE‘s Shuhua has always been praised for her outspoken and confident nature. She has never hesitated to speak her mind. She once used her platform to publicly reprimand a group of men in China for using violence against women. She also left a touching message to women.
To all of you lovely girls, I am sorry I can’t help your pain, fears, and grievances, but now what’s important is that you live well and heal with time. Other than that, trust me, everyone will fight for your justice. There is no reason to show mercy to scums like them. I just hope you can see the warmth in your misfortune.
— Shuhua
This time, the precious girl helped a fan get over their fear of coming out to their parents. A fan asked Shuhua what they should do if they like someone of the same gender.
💬 슈화야 동성인 사람을 좋아하는데 어떡하지
🐺 용감하게 사랑해 pic.twitter.com/GJ0XwflwxD— 늑콜 (@shuhuacalling) August 15, 2022
Shuhua had the best advice.
Just love them. Just love them bravely. Don’t whine. Don’t whine, really.
— Shuhua
In Mandarin, the phrase for “don’t whine” means that one should not think of something as a huge deal. Shuhua is encouraging the fan to pursue their love bravely and care less what others think. The fan continued to ask what they should do if they face disapproval from their parents.
💬 동성을 좋아하는 것을 부모님이 인정 안 하면?
↪️ 연애는 너의 일이지 부모님의 일이 아니야. 진지하게 부모님과 얘기해봐. 너를 진정으로 사랑하는 만큼 결국엔 그들도 너를 받아들일거야. 넌 사랑의 힘이 얼마나 대단한지 몰라.슈화의 가치관과 그에 따른 위로는 항상 너무 멋있어 pic.twitter.com/1EtgAPb5Gp
— 늑콜 (@shuhuacalling) August 15, 2022
This is a good question. Loving someone is something to do with yourself, not your parents. So I think you should seriously and nicely try to communicate with your parents. If they love you, they will accept you in the end. So it’s okay. You guys don’t know just how powerful love is.
— Shuhua
With her encouraging pearls of wisdom, hopefully the fan has found some comfort and clarity!
